Ladies, I'm still in mourning.
I've been thinking for the last couple weeks, when the cold weather hit and the track itself just started to hit me that little bit differently (despite evidently already stanning) that I wish I'd given 'It's Nice to Have a Friend' my 11.
It's sort of impossible to separate it from every trope she's come to embody, excel at and then sort of run into the ground over the last 14 years... because the fact that it doesn't even try to cater to a single one informs every aspect of it and it makes it so much richer. I'd go as far as to say it's sort of the antithesis of the songwriting style that's come to define her music? It goes for the macro approach, as if she's taking a step back and actually observing new and other kinds of relationships and writing about love from a more nuanced and studied place than solely drawing from her own experiences. That's not to say she's not experienced this herself - the very images and scenarios that make up the lyrics and the overall fragility attached to the forming of that kind of relationship are something everybody will have gone through. It's just remarkably refreshing to feel her throw her talent behind something that doesn't necessarily feel like it's from the perspective of Taylor Swift.
Everything outside of the lyrics - especially the way the unassuming production glides through the narrative, never really making itself too known but effortlessly providing the canvas for the lyrics - is just ridiculously evocative in a way I'm not sure she's ever been without spelling things out so bluntly or pulverizing you with capital P Pop sensibilities.
Sweet dreams, 'It's Nice to Have a Friend'. The world did not deserve you.