In August, I started going to the gym in Ireland, after having complete fear of even stepping foot in a gym and being judged. I got a personal trainer to help make me more comfortable and so that I know what I’m doing and I really enjoyed it.
My first time in the gym on my own in Paris went well until my last set when a hugely jacked straight guy came over to tell me I was doing it wrong, only to discover that he just wanted my machine. I was so angry and so depleted after having built up my confidence so much with the PT sessions. Fuck off with your unsolicited advice! If this is what men are like with women in the gym, no wonder so many of my friends don’t go on their own.
The next day I spoke to one of the personal trainers in my new gym about what I was doing and he gave me tips and some encouragement. And now he chats away and fist bumps me every time he sees me like he does to all the big muscular guys which is cute.
I’ve definitely found my groove now, I’ve noticed some positive changes already, and I’m much happier. My goal is to be more toned and get stronger, but I've noticed that I’m still the same weight I was like 6/7 weeks ago. Is that normal for toning and strength building? It’s not my goal to lose weight (or even to gain weight) but I’m just surprised seeing as I can physically see changes.