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It all started from discontent from her fans about her not acknowledging the cancelled shows and the conversation led on from there. Someone then mentioned the ballroom influence in her new show and she went on to talk about how she has a deep appreciation for ballroom culture and that she shouldn't have to explain every creative decision she makes just because fans assume she is doing something in bad faith (like appropriating ballroom culture for clout).
I agree with a lot of what she was saying about not needing to explain every aspect of her art, but I think she took a lot of offence from fans who were rightfully annoyed at the shows being cancelled and no acknowledgment from her publicly. She was kind of using 'I'm shy and don't use social media' as an excuse. The mods were also deleting any slightly negative comment made in the chat during this whole thing.
The ballroom thing is funny because I remember her always being open about that? Nn. But mess on both sides. I don’t think any artist needs to be deeply entrenched in their fanbase, and certainly not on a cesspool like Discord.