Gaga should definitely hold herself accountable, and she did + apologised. I’m talking about people who are still trying to find ways to attack her. My post was just coming from a place of disappointment and how unfair it is. It’s even sadder that the audience that consumes Chris Brown and R Kelly songs, don’t see the wrong in that and proceed to bring down a artist that worked with him, once 7 years ago.
....why would people who like R. Kelly bash Lady Gaga.... for working with him? What?
That's.. what's trying to be emphasized. There's like some weird hand-wringing attempt to over-state and over-emphasize a few bad faith voices to paint people as largely unsympathetic to Gaga, when 1) that's.. just not the case and 2) heavy-handedly unneeded because of just how much it's not the case.
It's one thing to call out hypothetical user GetIntoTheGroove467 for concern-trolling, but painting the overall reaction as unfair to Gaga is just removed from reality. And the weird laundry-listing of anyone who has ever had contact with Kelly as some kind of gotcha is odd. It ignores that many of the people who had an issue with Gaga's actions likely already have issues with most of the toxic men being used, or that many of the female artists being used (Tinashe?!) were in much different power dynamics than Gaga was.
I personally took no issue with her apology cause it wasn't an apology for me, and I'm just glad some of R. Kelly's victims feel better after her apology. So over-catastrophizing the supposed reaction to her decisions is just as unhelpful as anyone who is concern-trolling or weaponizing it against her.