I absolutely stan being in my 30s, even though I often still have crisis of confidence. It's important to remember that nobody ever really figures things out or gets their shit together even if it looks like they do – regardless of if they're 25 or 65. Holding yourself up against other people or what you "think" you should be doing at your age is only going to make you miserable, gwerls. Just do you, and the right people will come to you. But, like – the knowledge, the wisdom, the bullshit detection I've manage to accumulate since I was in my early 20s? Aging is iconic and there's dick available for all age brackets, body shapes, hobbies and preferences nowadays so don't panic.