So after all these depressing posts about ghosting and what-not, of which I've had my share too, time to share a happy update! I am still dating my ideal guy who lives pretty close. Our last date was me visiting him on Thursday and we ate together, he cooked a pretty simple and healthy meal. We shared a bottle of wine too and the dessert was German apfelstrüdel, delicious, yum yum. I insisted on helping him clean the kitchen so I did my share too. Afterwards we had some quality time, of course - yes it was very good again, and he asked if I wanted to stay the night, but we both slept pretty bad that week already, and then sleeping together would make me quite tired for the weekend. So we decided to do that next time again, which will be Saturday when I'm visiting him again. In the mean time, we text every day. I get good morning texts which I love (I remember when a guy that I dated previously did this... and I wasn't that enthusiastic with it at all... Not sure why, but these are great - feelings huh?). We chat through the day and sometimes send cute pics, talk in the evening and every day we look forward to meeting again. I can invite him over to my student house... but it's damn crappy, and less privacy and roommates, and my bed is just for one person. So I rather not. But I am moving in January so he can come over there and help with painting and such. I think we can set up a date to just show him the city I live next to, which is adorable. Yay!