Unrelated kinda, but, This guy I dated in highschool... probably like 11 years ago at this point. It was like a flimsy highschool relationship so nothing serious, we don't talk anymore except sometimes I reply to his snapchat story and make smalltalk about whatever video game he's playing on there but ANYWAYS. I keep seeing his grindr profile and he ALWAYS has it listed that he is 19 years old. And i'm like Yikes dude, you were like 17/18 when we dated... 11 years ago so you're like 28/29 now. That's a big gap to lie about. He is really skinny, twinky kind of guy so like, it's not hard to believe that that could be his age if you don't know him, which just kind of makes me think that he is doing it to attract 18/19 year olds who want to date someone young... And that is creepy to me. I know it's none of my business. But like a year ago I messaged him and was like "Hey I saw you on grindr, it says you're 19! Boyyy!" and he was like "Oh I forgot to change it" (For like 10 years? okay dude), and then months went by and I was like "C'mon punk, your grindr says you're 19" and he was like "Oh that's not me, It's a fake profile" but it's clearly not. At this point i'm just going to leave it alone. But like... It gives me major creep vibes and also thank god no one knows I dated him 11 years ago otherwise they'd be thinking I dated an 8 year old... picking me up with his drivers license in his sports car that barely worked... On grindr you can literally set your age to be private from view on your profile... I don't know why he wouldn't just do that if he didn't want people to know, unless, like I said, he is purposefully trying to attract young guys.