I wasn’t asking but good luck trying to govern opinions on an online forum of all.
If only this forum had some sort of... moderators?
Look, Jesy is beautiful and all that, but that’s not how issues like this work
. She was at a stage where her mental health was suffering and she took the decision to walk away and be able to manage it on her own terms.
If you’re able to acknowledge that she was struggling, you’re able to understand that this isn’t “of her own doing” at all - it’s effectively a mental health issue caused by years of toxic messaging about women’s bodies and the fact that, frankly, her body didn’t
look like the other three’s when the band came out, and she did
get a lot of stick for it.
That trumps your frustration that your favourite girl group couldn’t hit an arbitrary milestone of longevity, I’m afraid.
Please temper your posts on this subject and try and have more compassion for Jesy’s position.