#46
Stand By Your Man (1968)
High Score: 10 @mump boy @Filippa
Low Score: 4 @Reboot
Average Score: 7.600
Chart Positions: UK #1 US #19
Tammy Wynette's
Stand By Your Man is officially
The Greatest Country Song Of All Time, probably the most well known and certainly one of the most famous entrants in this competitions. So why has it flopped so horribly? Maybe you just all hate great country music maybe you've misunderstood the song because it's
SO much more than is often assumed.
This isn't an instruction for women to stay with abusive husbands or forgive their adulterous ways it's a declaration of commitment. For better or for worse.
'Sometimes it's hard to be a woman, giving all you love to just one man' Tammy laments from the very outset, suggesting that it's her that's considering cheating.
It's not the woman in this situation that's the weak one. The man is in trouble, the man needs help and support. Maybe he's depressed, maybe he has money troubles or ill health. Maybe he's a well meaning fuck up. Don't give up on him at the first sign of trouble cries Tammy -
'Give him to arms to cling to and something warm to come to, when night are cold and lonely'.
He needs her.
Even the songs most famous line -
After all he's just a man - doesn't have to be read a gendered. She could just be saying he's human. We all make mistakes.
Tammy Wynette was marries 5 times.
Apart from anything else Tammy sings the shit out of this. Starting with her famous husky, tones that immediately connote heartbreak by the end she's belting her heart out with a few notes in there even she was nervous to hit-
`God, if this is a hit, you know what?' She said, `I'm going to have to hit that God-awful high note the rest of my life.'
During the women's movement of the 70's it came in for a lot of criticism the sentiment being seen as unhelpful to the cause but Tammy always defended and then of course there was
this debacle.
Another song co-written with Billy Sherrill it was reportedly written in 15 minutes and released at the end of 1968 becoming an immediate Country smash (Her 5th #1) and even crossing over into the Hot 100 at #19. Released 5 tims in the UK it finally became s huge hit in 1975 during the mid 70's Country craze that swept the nations. The song turned Tammy from an up and coming country favourite into a superstar a position she held for the next 30 years.
This record won her the Grammy for Best Female Country Vocal Performance and she was awarded the CMA as Best Female Vocalist of the Year.
It's been covered by numerous artists including potential future Legendary Diva
Candi Staton.
I expected this to do a lot better here simply because of it's iconic status. Easily the biggest song to leave so far. Not only that but The First Lady of Country is now officially out but she's got her pride and knows how to hide all the heartache and pain, she'll do her......
Tammy elimination write up coming tomorrow along with another absolute classic that you've kicked out WAY too early......
LEGENDARY DIVA COVER
I'm sure I have a proper Dolly cover of this somewhere but can't find it online so here she is some with some other legends...
And don't forget Tina's mid 70's Country period...