If Luxx and Mistress were in any other reality TV show, y'all would be eating them up. I see what goes on in the housewives/Bravo threads, but because they are on drag race, somehow they are bullies? We only see Loosey 40 - 60 minutes now a week, and she's consistently irritating, try-hard, and joyless. If you had to live with that for a few weeks, combined with your own internal struggle in a competition, I don't think what Luxx and Mistress are saying is exactly out of pocket. Maybe they push the boundaries of kindness a bit here and there, but nothing is so far out of line they need to be called bullies.
Just because you are a queer person doing drag doesn't mean everything has to be hugs, rainbows, and affirmations. It's like a majority of the fanbase never saw any of the seasons before season 7. This is child's play and a bit of fun at the expense of someone who is clearly a very difficult person to be around in this scenario. You don't deserve adoration just because you chose to do drag, and then bring it to a reality TV competition. Nothing Mistress or Lux have done or said pales in comparison to some of the most "iconic" moments of early drag race conflicts.