when it comes to the human being Shawn Mendes, I hope he continues to find joy and space for himself to grow. When it comes to the pop star, I need him to call Teddy <3, write a bop and keep his shirt on.
I blame you for this.
I like the new song, but then I've liked all the songs he's released from the album so far.
I'm happy to see that he seems to be garnering a lot of support and people are easing off on him a bit. This feels not dissimilar to when the internet bullied Kit Connor to come out as bisexual because he got so much shit for being a "straight actor" in Heartstopper. Why are we still doing this to celebrities in 2024? His statement said a lot (despite kind of not saying anything ddd). It's interesting as an elder queer who was part of the generation that felt so oppressed and silenced that we were desperate to be able to label ourselves loudly and proudly when we could, where the younger generation is way less interested in that and more open to the idea that their sexuality is undefined, fluid, and constantly changing. Like, in my day, you absolutely would not say you are gay until you were
emphatically sure, whereas these days, young people are more open to the gray area and that "here's where I am now, tomorrow it may be different." I hope wherever Shawn ends up he's happy, and there's an open spot in my bed if needs to be
really sure.