I also find it loathsome when Heather "laments" about her "old self," like she was some misshapen ogre cast out from the village and had to live in the shadows like Quasimodo. What she really means is her old personality of celebrating dick and not taking herself too seriously didn't connect so now she's trying out being the Very Serious Moment Spokesperson for the group, which isn't working either.The greatest thing about the reception of Bronwyn vs Heather, especially on social media, is just how much people value the former’s ability to communicate and validate herself and her own perspective within a variety of situations, in contrast to how Heather is quite visibly seeking the in-crowd acceptance not only of her castmates but the viewers as well.
It’s not necessarily about standing alone on principle but having the tools to do so with dignity and humility. Heather continues to act like She By Shein and people aren’t really attracted to her inability to stop whimpering for the gaze of anyone that’ll stop to look in her direction.
Heather you just aren't the star. It's fine! Not everyone is or has to be.